HOW TO MAKE GOOD FRIENDS

FIRST YOU HAVE TO ASK YOUR SELF THIS QUESTION AM:

1. Open minded

2. Honesty

3. Trusth worthy

4. Polite to the way I talk to people

5. Do I have Good Mannar in Public

6. Do I Share with People

7. Rendering Help to people that am suppose to help

8. who am i and what is me

Testimonies of People who have made good friends

ManBlood — 3 months ago
I never realized how my old friends were holding me back from doing what I really wanted to do…I was never aware of the pressure to conform. What’s great about making new friends is that they have no expectations of you, so you can be yourself – your best self. People constantly change, but my old friends seem to not want me to change. At least, it’s hard for the to get it that I’m different. It takes some time, it’s like a shock to them. Sometimes it seems like they try to pull me back, they test me if I’m being real instead of supporting the new and improved me.



Mathias (Lie Lie)
Worth doing!
A lot of people know me and talk to me, it’s just that I very rarely hang out with any of them..I’m determined to make good friends with some people. I used to always have bestfriends..now it’s more, I have one good friend and a boyfriend and that’s that.Today is the beginning.I’m very picky on people I hang out with, I need to learn not to be. Everyone does things that are irritating..I’d really like to go out and have fun with some good friends. I’d love that SO much..

Saint Ramsy
Iv always had a hard time choosing good people to hang out with, most of my old “friends” have gotten me into loads of trouble. I have lately found one person who has really showed me what friendship is. I’m moving back home to texas and want to find other people like her there when I move instead of people who are going to bring me down.


Victor
i dont have any close or special friends. I would love to be able to talk to people and listen to them when they have something bothering them. I’d really like to be able to do all the things that some folks take for granted when they have large groups of close mates :)

HOW TO MAKES A GOOD FRIEND

Make New Friends, Keep Good Friends“Make new friends, keep the old. One is silver, the other is gold.”—adageResearch conducted by Dr. Dean Ornish and others shows that the happiest and healthiest people are those who are well-connected to friends and family. But, in our mobile society, keeping friends is not always possible. Long-term friendships are wonderful and valuable, but if you don’t make new connections as you get older, your group of friends may diminish due to death and relocation. If you haven’t made new friends in a while, updating your definition of friendship and increasing your skills at meeting people will be worth your while.First, consider what being a friend means to you. Who are your best friends? What qualities do they have? Once you have a clear idea of the kinds of friendships you would enjoy, you can decide to create more of them in your life. This can be done in two ways:• Make changes in your current relationships ask your friends to participate in activities you enjoy, and spend more time with the friends whose style of friendship best complements your own.• Create new friendships --Reach out to coworkers, your neighbors or church members and invite them to accompany you in a favorite activity or for coffee. As an alternative, you may want to join a discussion group focused on literature, film, or painting, or take a class in yoga, or cooking. If you spend time with people who have similar interests, you will soon create new friends.If you find that you don’t have enough friends, here are some guidelines for making new ones. Of course, you can tailor these suggestions to your personal tastes.1. Get a life. If you want to meet people with whom you have something in common, do things on a regular basis that involve others. Activities can range from taking classes, joining hobby clubs, volunteering, playing a sport or game, hiking, or any pursuit that meets regularly. The people you meet will share your interest, and you’ll have something to talk about and enjoy together.2. Find interesting, fun people. Being involved in an ongoing activity, and meeting with the same people on a regular basis gives you a chance to get to know them before you decide to pursue a more personal relationship. When you find someone you think is particularly pleasant, spend a little time talking with him or her during or after your activity. Ask questions about the project you are working on, or share experiences and advice. If you both enjoy the conversation, goes well, you can offer to meet before or after the session for coffee. From there, you can begin do more things together, until you’ve established a pattern of friendship.3. Don’t overlook people you know. While you’re making new friends, don’t forget the people you already know. Is there a favorite family member you’d like to see more often? Call him or her and suggest going for a walk, or to lunch. Are there acquaintances at work, at church, in your neighborhood, involved in your child’s ( or your own) school, or elsewhere with whom you could develop a friendship? Consider reaching out to them. Let these people know that you’d like to share events and activities.Spending quality time with friends is beneficial to your emotional, mental and physical health. If you follow the above steps, you’ll findthat it isn’t as difficult as you think to make friends.

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Step you take to become a computer programmer

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How to Become a Master Computer Programmer
There are some very powerful secrets behind my success in computer consulting. By using my burning desire to succeed and a proven plan executed on a daily basis, I was able to get my first contract when I had only seven months of "typical" experience. In this article, I reveal some of those secrets.
Do one thing - but do it well Do one thing and do it well. You must put all your eggs in one basket and burn all your bridges behind you. Shocking? Well, in order to become a success practically overnight, you have to do some drastic things and find a way to keep yourself motivated to succeed.
You must burn some bridges behind youThere might be times when you lose your focus or interest and feel like you don't want to put in any extra effort to achieve your goals. This is why you must burn some bridges behind you. If you leave yourself no place to turn to and the only direction you can go is forward toward becoming an expert computer consultant/programmer, you'll give yourself the leverage you need to drag yourself out of bed and in front of the computer everyday. For example, I left myself with no place to go but forward when I quit my job, took out a loan for school, and purchased a computer, all of which put me into debt. I knew that if I didn't succeed, and fast, I'll have to borrow money from relatives and even have to go back to a low-paying job I hated. It was either succeed or die. You too should find ways to give yourself absolutely no way to go but forward.
Don't reinvent the wheel In my opinion, if you want to make BIG money and have BIG success, there is absolutely no room for a generalist in computer consulting/ programming. You have to initially put all your eggs in one basket. Now in order to concentrate your experience, you must first of all not reinvent the wheel. This means that you must find experts in the field you want to enter and learn everything they reveal to you. Where can you find experts? In our case, you'll find experts in the form of authors of technical trade books.
It must become second natureTo rapidly become an expert, you have to learn from the experts. Find technical books written by industry experts that have many years of experience and study every word over and over until the information and its use becomes second nature to you. (I repeat: The information and its use must become second nature to you). Most importantly, if possible, find books written by those who were involved with the development of the tool (programming language or development environment) you are using. They have first-hand insight into the technology and its use and as such have an important perspective to reveal.
A fundamental Along with these books, you should also study books written by those who apply the technology in the same way you will. For example, let's say you will be a contract programmer using C++. In this case, ideally, you need find a book written by a contract programmer or consultant that has many years of experience programming in C++. This is important; for the author will reveal tips and secrets he or she has learned as a result of that experience. This is where you get the opportunity to condense your experience by learning from the experiences of experts - as opposed to just learning the fundamentals from textbooks. But you absolutely must study these books with a fine toothcomb and not let anything go by not understood. You should treat these books as bibles and as textbooks. Get your highlighter, notebook and pencil out and start highlighting every new concept. Make notes in the margins and earmark special pages worth referring to. By the time you finish a book, you should know where everything is without having to refer to the index and the book should be physically worn out. I know it sounds like a lot, but I have done this procedure with thousand-page books. And I've studied each book more than once. This is a fundamental of Rapid Mastery Technology™.
It won't even feel like workRapid Mastery Technology™ stresses learning from experts. There is a wealth of information to learn from these experts. In one book you can gain years of experience in just a few months. Think what two, three, and four books can do. This process is what separates the mediocre and the expert. If you are willing to go through with this painstaking, time-consuming and sometimes nerve-racking task, you will not only create a thoroughly rewarding career, you will become rich in the process and by doing something you love. It won't even feel like work. You won't believe you're getting paid tons of money to do something you'd do as a hobby anyway. It's absolutely amazing!